It was a wonderful day long ago when Chris and Kirsten were joined in holy matrimony. What a beautiful couple they were. Meant for each other. It was rightfully declared that this was a "union made in heaven."

   Coming from a higher strata of life than she did, Chris had met her on her level. He had sacrificed everything for her. It was the ultimate expression of love. Everything that he was and all of his assets were made available to her, at her disposal.

   Who would have thought that this beautiful relationship of oneness would so soon begin to disintegrate and degenerate? It was not long, though, before the unity of spirit, mind and emotion between the two of them was being "torn asunder."

   Kirsten, the young bride, began to demand her "rights" to do as she pleased. She claimed that her new husband was too possessive and controlling, trying to "lord it over her." She argued about who owned what and who was supposed to do what, and accused him of not doing his part to provide for her and to protect her.

   A spiritual and emotional detachment developed. Kirsten's attitude of anitipathy and apathy led to an estranged relationship, despite attempts at reconcilation. She finally chose to go her own way, though no official certificate of divorce was granted.

   Chris was grieved. He still loved her as much as any man could love a woman. He was desirous that she would return and participate in the union they were meant to have.

   The irony of the situation was that, despite the separation, Kirsten still acted as though she was married to him. She maintained a facade of marital union in a relationship of convenience. She still used his name. She wanted to retain his credit cards, and claim his social security.

   What do you think? Is this man being used?

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   The intimate spiritual union between Christ and the Christian was indeed "made in heaven." Christ made the ultimate sacrifice of love for His bride (Eph. 5:25).

   Christians in the Church soon began to think that they could go their own way in a separated and detached relationship with Jesus Christ. The disjunction of the integral oneness between Christ and the Christian has led to a relationship of convenience wherein "Christian religion" uses His name, but does not function in union with Christ.